Victory Over Sexual Abuse: Seminar - "The Emotinally Destructive Relationship"

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Seminar - "The Emotinally Destructive Relationship" - Liberty, MO

Pleasant Valley Baptist Church and Counselors Edge Present: The Emotionally Destructive Relationship.

Seeing it! Stopping it! Surviving it!

Have you been hurt in a relationship? This powerful seminar offers practical, biblical wisdom to help those stuck in destructive relationship patters. Author Leslie Vernick has helped hundreds of people move beyond their fears and learn to live free.

Imagine how much happier you would feel if you could:

Say "no" and mean it
Have the courage to make choices for yourself
Confidently speak your thoughts and feelings in a constructive way
Heal from a negative self-image and low self-esteem

March 7, 2009
9am - noon
Pleasant Valley Baptist Church
1600 North 291 Highway
Liberty, MO 64068

Contact Virginia McAuley with questions: (816) 781-5959, ext: 218
Email registration to vernickevent@pleasantvalley.org

Early registration savings: $15 before February 15th.
After February 15th: $20

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I lead support groups and have decided to take the information from the support groups and "teach" it here too. I will blog each lesson, give you time to think about it, comment if you'd like, email me privately, whatever works for you. It is always helpful to hear from others who are going through the same thing, so in the interest of supporting and encouraging each other, please consider sharing your experiences in the comments. You may do so anonymously if you'd like.

The workbook we are using is Shelter From The Storm by Cynthia Kubetin-Littlefield and James Mallory.

**Much of the content in the lesson postings is derived from, and even directly quoted at times, Shelter From The Storm. My personal comments are mine, but the process laid out here is from the book. I am merely a fellow survivor and lesson facilitator - NOT the author or creator.**

Why this blog?

I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. The daughter of an absent father who was brutally addicted to drugs and alcohol. The daughter of a woman suffering from diagnosed but untreated mental illnesses.

The "signs" of abuse and neglect started showing around age 8, but even I didn't recognize them until I was in my later 20's. I was very lonely, ashamed and embarrassed. I didn't know how to be in relationships and thought I was destined to be all alone, rejected and unloved. I tried desperately to "earn" people's love and acceptance, but pushed them away at the same time... For so long, so many people brushed aside what I'd been through, wishing I was lower maintenance and not who I really was - someone who'd been neglected and abused by her parents, a person who was completely changed by another person's failures and sin, someone who needed to be rebuilt, not cast aside or taken advantage of because she was broken.

I began to heal when I was finally loved unconditionally - first by my husband, then our firstborn child, then the Lord. My life was turned upside down - in a wonderful way - when I discovered that I am not the "orphan" I had felt like for so very long. I have a heavenly father!

I also discovered that what man means for evil, God will use to glorify him. What devastated me for many years is now something I draw on to help others as I lead support groups, talk to groups, and blog about the realities of sexual abuse and the hope there is for a complete recovery. I consider it a tremendous privilege to be able to share my experiences with you; hopefully encouraging you on your road to recovery. If you are not a survivor of sexual abuse, I invite you to stick around and read on. It is my hope and prayer that through this blog, you will learn more about how you can support a survivor in your life. Thank you for visiting.